Hey there! It's Veronika! I'm back to talk up my fave subject with those people I love best -- my readers! If you've been following along so far, you know that I answer lots of different kinds of questions but they all have sex as their central theme. I've made it my life's mission to enjoy the many aspects of sex. But I don't go about it in a dry, boring, this is your health textbook kind of way. Instead, I offer a large dollop of humor because -- next to sex -- laughing is my favorite thing!
Hey there! It's Veronika! I'm back to talk up my fave subject with those people I love best -- my readers! If you've been following along so far, you know that I answer lots of different kinds of questions but they all have sex as their central theme. I've made it my life's mission to enjoy the many aspects of sex. But I don't go about it in a dry, boring, this is your health textbook kind of way. Instead, I offer a large dollop of humor because -- next to sex -- laughing is my favorite thing!
Let's move on to our question for this installment of my sex advice column.
Dear Veronika, What do guys see in older women -- also known as cougars -- anyway? Lillian
Lillian, it might be hard to believe that a man would choose a woman that is quite a few years older than he is but older women do offer several advantages that younger women often don't offer. For one thing, older women have a number of years of sexual experience under their belts. They can use this to their advantage in terms of making a guy feel really good. This also means that they know exactly how to achieve an orgasm so they can easily direct a guy to help them reach this mutual goal.
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Older women often have acquired a significant amount of confidence that makes them not at all shy in bed. This means that they are many times more willing to experiment in role playing, dress up and other fun and exciting bedroom activities. This confidence can be very sexy when it comes with a vibrant personality and a body that been kept in shape. I've found that -- contrary to popular belief -- only a small percentage of men are actually sexually attracted to older women because they have a mommy complex of some sort.
Have you been in a relationship with someone who is significantly older or younger than yourself? If so, then I want to hear from you. How did it work out for you and would you do it again? I want to hear all the juicy details! Until later, Veronika