Hey there readers! I'm Veronika and I'm glad to welcome you back to my little slice of paradise here at Sex-Press-Release.com. Each column is devoted to questions that you -- my readers -- shoot my way. No subject is off limits so I encourage you to send in your deepest and darkest questions that have been eating away at you, but that you are afraid to ask your best friend, boyfriend or therapist. That being said, let's move right to our current question.
Hey there readers! I'm Veronika and I'm glad to welcome you back to my little slice of paradise here at Sex-Press-Release.com. Each column is devoted to questions that you -- my readers -- shoot my way. No subject is off limits so I encourage you to send in your deepest and darkest questions that have been eating away at you, but that you are afraid to ask your best friend, boyfriend or therapist. That being said, let's move right to our current question.
Dear Veronika, What's up with guys smacking my lady bits before penetration? Ticked off Teri
Teri sounds like a woman who's run into too many guys that think porn is the way of real life. Now don't get me wrong! You guys know I like a healthy dose of porn in my life, but c'mon! Those people are doing a job that they're getting paid for! It's their job to make things look fantastic and like everyone is having fun. Otherwise, they won't be hired again. There are plainly some things that just are not the real deal when it comes to life these days. Smacking the genitals of a girl that you are banging falls into that category.
An Attempt To Pre-Heat The Oven
I'm not even sure where the practice originated, but it seems to be some weird cross between two things that are not even remotely related. On one hand, it seems to be a power play when the guy is trying to show his dominance. On the other hand, it could be a guy's failed attempt to stimulate the blood vessels that are just under the surface in the mistaken belief that doing so will intensify her orgasm and pleasure. Instead, all that does is piss her off during one of these times when it is really important for her to feel happy.
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According to an informal survey that I took among my women friends, a pretty sizable number of them would deem behavior like that as a deal breaker when it comes to a fledgling relationship. Of course, this is when it happens without any prior discussion. If you or your lover are looking for a way to spice up your sex play and you have a dom-sub thing going on, it might be something that you want to try out. The key is communication here! Don't go around whacking on a girl's lady bits if you want to see them up close and personal again in the future.
I wonder if this subject is going to be divided down the gender lines with the guys wondering what the big deal is and the girls going stop slapping on my pussy! Since I already polled some of my friends on an informal basis, I want to hear from a broad range of people. Write in and tell me your experiences with this practice!
Veronika <3