Veronika here and I'm back answering your deepest and darkest sex questions via my new column graciously hosted by Sex-Press-Release.com. No topic is off limits here when it comes to sex, humor and the mysteries of life.
Veronika here and I'm back answering your deepest and darkest sex questions via my new column graciously hosted by Sex-Press-Release.com. No topic is off limits here when it comes to sex, humor and the mysteries of life. I also don't mind when my readers disagree with me or think I'm talking out my ass. Of course, I also love hearing about those times that you think I'm spot on too! So don't be shy around here -- goodness knows that I'm not! I want to hear what you think about all this sex talk and throw in a few of your questions and ideas as well! Now on to today's question...
Bayley writes:
Hi Veronika,
I have this kind of awkward situation and I'm not really sure what I can or should do about it. I like girls -- a lot! But I only date guys. The problem is that the guys I date get upset if I sometimes mess around with a girl. I don't understand what's going on with them. I've told the guys over and over again that I would never date a girl so there's no threat there.
Ballin' Bayley
Bayley, I think I can sum up your guy's issue in one word -- he's jealous. In my mind, there are two perspectives at work here. On one hand, you've told your guy that you won't date girls but you continue to mess around with them when you want. While I applaud you for having fun where you can, it sends some pretty upsetting signals to your guy if he's seriously into you. Even though you say you won't date a girl, you cannot control your emotions. Maybe your guy is afraid that you won't be able to give up the carpet munching and you'll want to have pussy all the time.
Every Straight Man Loves Lesbians!
On the other hand, seeing two girls get down and dirty with each other is nearly every red-blooded man's top fantasy so I don't see why your guy wouldn't be angling to use that to his advantage. If you are like many people and you are just having fun with the girly parts of your female friends, then maybe your male interest would feel less threatened by your flings if he could join in somehow. Maybe having him actually participate is too intrusive but could he watch the two of you play with each other's pussies and clits while jerking himself off?
Yea or nay on my advice to Bayley? What say you -- my loyal readers -- about our sex advice question for this installment of the column? Let me have it -- whether you agree with me or not -- I want to hear from you!