Hey there everyone! It's Veronika, back with the latest sex -- and sexy -- advice for my readers. Today, we tackle fetishes in general and a popular -- and common -- one in particular: the foot fetish. This type of fetish is probably the most common one found in both genders.
Hey there everyone! It's Veronika, back with the latest sex -- and sexy -- advice for my readers. Today, we tackle fetishes in general and a popular -- and common -- one in particular: the foot fetish. This type of fetish is probably the most common one found in both genders. With men, though it seems to wind up being sexually focused while women just like to go out and buy a bunch of pairs of shoes that litter their closet floors without ever having been worn. The first type of foot fetish is the one that brings us to our reader question for this session. Kent asks:
Dear Veronika,
I have a foot fetish but I'm afraid if I tell my girlfriend and act on it, I'll scare her away. That's not my biggest problem though. My girlfriend has THE sexiest feet ever! I'm not sure how much longer I can stop myself from worshipping them without scaring her away. Help me before I lose it or her or both!
Kinky Kent
Well, Kent, I did want to start off by saying that if you consider yourself kinky because you have a foot fetish, then you have lots of company. According to the author of this CNN article, "men are more predisposed to have fetishes." The author doesn't quote any statistics or studies to back up his claims but I do know that in my own rather varied (wink wink) experience, I have run across many more men who admit to having fetishes than women. Perhaps that is the issue though. Maybe women don't feel comfortable admitting -- and consequently exploring -- their fetishes.
You Obviously Think Your Girlfriend Is Sexy Already
Back to Kent and his girlfriend's sexy feet...I'd approach the whole thing from the perspective of an appreciative connoisseur of women's bodies -- in this case your girlfriend's. Obviously you already think she's sexy and beautiful. I'd let her know that you think she has feet that are as gorgeous as the rest of her. Chances are she would love for you to lavish some attention on her feet but definitely start off slowly with the type of attention you do give them. You don't want to use them to wank off just minutes after professing your love of them to her. By gradually working up to it, chances are that your girlfriend will be willing to at least play along to a certain extent so that your foot fetish is satiated.
Men: tell me all about your fetishes! I want to hear all the juicy details!
Women: do you have any fetishes? If you do, I want to hear about them! What would you tell Kent if you were his girlfriend? Would you be willing to let your boyfriend "love" your feet in various ways?
Til next time!
Veronika <3