Veronika here to welcome you to another sex advice column here at Sex-Press-Release.com. Today's subject is a favorite of mine and nearly everyone that I've talked to: oral sex. In this enlightened day and age, it seems likely that nearly every man knows that most women require direct stimulation of their clits in order to orgasm.
Veronika here to welcome you to another sex advice column here at Sex-Press-Release.com. Today's subject is a favorite of mine and nearly everyone that I've talked to: oral sex. In this enlightened day and age, it seems likely that nearly every man knows that most women require direct stimulation of their clits in order to orgasm. While some can have out of this world orgasms simply by having a throbbing cock banging away at them. So what's a girl to do if the man in her life won't munch on her muff?
Veronika,
My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile. He is great except one thing. Our sex life is severely lacking because he won't go down on me. I'm not one of those lucky women that can cum when having vaginal sex (oh how I envy them!). Instead, I have to have my clit directly stimulated. I have a hard time having a deep and satisfying orgasm when he just uses his fingers. On the other hand, I have mind blowing orgasms when my man eats me out. What can I do to make him see how important this is to me?
Unsatisfied Ursula
Ursula, I'll admit that I don't understand men who don't want to experience nibbling on their partner's luscious lips and tasting their pussy nectar. Not only does it feel good to her, it makes a woman literally putty in a man's hands. What man wouldn't like to see his partner bucking, squirming and screaming with delight -- all because of his talents? Apparently yours is not interested in this and it's really putting a damper on your enjoyment of one of life's best pleasures -- sex.
Be Sure To Talk To Him About It
I'm assuming that at this point, you've had a talk with him about how important to you this is. If you haven't, then one is sorely overdue. He needs to know that he is doing you a horrible disservice by not bringing you to orgasm. Maybe you'll find out if he has a hangup about going down on women or if he simply doesn't like the texture or taste. If that is the case, perhaps there is something health-wise going on that you aren't aware of. You might want to get a clean bill of health from your OBGYN to make sure that it isn't you but that it's all him.
Barring any traumatic events surrounding muff munching, I can't see any reason for him to deny you. In other words, if he tells you that he was abducted by a troupe of giants Amazonian women who forced him to perform oral sex on them for hours on end by locking their legs around his head, then I think he'd make a good storyteller. Otherwise, if he is totally unwilling to do this for you, Ursula you'll have to make up your mind whether you want to be with someone who is so inconsiderate of your needs.
Yes! I Love Oral Sex!
As you can tell, readers, I'm pretty passionate about oral sex. But what do you think? Am I being too hard on Ursula's boyfriend? Do you enjoy muff munching or do you do it mostly because it makes her happy? Do you do it at all? I await your feedback with bated breath!
Veronika <3